Mar 3, 2021
A Calming Reminder For Each Zodiac Sign.
Aquarius: ( January 20 - February 18)
You want to save the world, but you have to save yourself first. You matter, too. Taking care of yourself is not a selfish thing.
Pisces: ( February 19 - March 20)
Your empathy is a gift, but it isn’t the definition of who you are. People want to be seen and heard, but it’s necessary to give yourself those things, too.
Aries: (March 21- April 19)
It’s okay to slow down. You don’t always have to be moving- you’re allowed to take a moment and breathe.
Taurus: (April 20 - May 20)
Wanting to be safe is not a bad thing. You might think you’re overreacting, but it’s okay to be prepared and take care of yourself.
Gemini:( May 21 - June 20)
You don’t have to know everything. People love you for who you are, not everything you can do or everything you know.
Cancer: ( June 21 - July 22)
Your loved ones know you love them. You don’t have to spend every waking second, making sure they do. They know, I promise. Remember yourself, too.
Leo: ( July 23 - August 22)
It’s okay to admit that you’re stressed. You don’t have to hold everything together right now; it’s not all on your shoulders.
Virgo: ( August 23- September 22)
You can’t think your way out of this one, and it’s okay to get out of your head. You aren’t losing control, you’re not admitting defeat. Keeping yourself as sane as you can matters right now, too.
Libra: ( September 23 - October 22)
There are still beautiful things to hold onto right now. Even if they are hard to find, it’s okay to acknowledge them and cherish them- now more than ever.
Scorpio: ( October 23 - November 21)
You aren’t too much. You won’t always stay in the darkness; you will move past this. You will find something else to focus on- something that will light up your world again.
Sagittarius: ( November 22- December 21)
You don’t have to do everything. You are still a whole person, even if you can’t go everywhere you want to. Remember who you were before you started running from everything.
Capricorn: ( December 22 - January 19)
You can only do so much- and that is a relief. It’s okay to take a step back and rest. You need it, and you deserve it.
Dec 18, 2020
Uncomfortable Truths About Starting Over In Your Twenties
You might wish you would have settled, but will eventually be thankful that was not the case.
There might be moments when you regret leaving a partner or quitting a job and starting completely from scratch. There might be moments when you miss the stability you used to have and wish you could take your past decisions back. However, you have to remember you walked away for a reason. You were not happy and you deserve happiness. It might take some more struggles to get there, but you are going to reach your destination. In the end, you are going to be relieved you refused to settle when given the chance.
It is natural to feel like you are falling behind but there isn’t a set timeline you are supposed to follow.
There is not a milestone age when you are supposed to have a home and a ring and a positive pregnancy stick. You might have those things, then lose those things, then gain those things again. Or you might not even want those things in the first place. You need to remember that, even though you might feel like everyone is pressuring you to live a certain type of life; your existence is not a competition. You are not racing to see who can cross milestones off a checklist first. You are simply doing your best to find happiness in a crazy world.
The embarrassment is not going to kill you.
You might be embarrassed about getting divorced or losing your dream job or moving out of your beautiful home but shitty things happen. There might be people who judge you or pity you over your ‘setbacks’, but frankly, those people aren’t worth your time. Once you spot them, you can begin to weed them out of your life. You can keep the good people around instead, the people who love and support you no matter how successful you look from afar.
You are going to feel lost and that is okay.
You might feel like dating or job hunting should be easier now that you are older and wiser, but those things are never going to be easy. There are always going to be hurdles. You are always going to feel a little unsure and off-balance. Remember, it is okay if you have absolutely no idea what you are doing, even though you are older now.
Your struggles might be visible, but you are not the only one struggling.
When you go through a major life change, everyone is going to hear the news, which can feel daunting. However, just because you are publicly going through a change does not mean you are the only one suffering. The people around you are dealing with problems of their own. They are not perfect, either. They are simply dealing with their issues quietly.
Embrace changes instead of running from them.
It is never too late to start over. Instead of telling yourself that you should have made certain changes years ago, you should remind yourself that you can make the change now so you do not have the same regret in a few more years. Always remember it is better late than never.
Dec 10, 2020
In The New Year, Treat Yourself Gently.
As 2020 comes to an end means come another year. We all aware that many of us failed to accomplish our goals due a World facing COVID-19 which result to many lost their lives, relatives, friends and their love ones. While others lost their jobs, some business went closed or bankruptcy. In general it was a rough year, many say that 2020 was a year to fight for survival. So we should take a moment and be grateful that we are still alive and having a chance to see a new year and be able to find new opportunities. Lets now focus on 2021 and start over while we have a chance. So on the coming year here are few important point to keep in mind:
In the New Year, try not to stick to a timeline. It is healthy to set goals for yourself but do not beat yourself up when you are not able to accomplish them as quickly as you hoped. Do not feel like a failure when your journey is taking a little bit longer than you originally planned. Remember, you cannot control whether you are going to get rewarded for all your hard work. The only thing you can control is the work itself, so focus on the activity instead of the outcome.
In the New Year, try not to turn your aspirations into a competition. Try not to compare yourself to the other people your age, the people who graduated alongside you, the people in the same field as you. Everyone moves forward at their own pace, so you cannot fault yourself for ‘falling behind.’ You are not in a race. You are not in last place. You are not a failure. You are doing your best and that is all you can ask of yourself.
In the New Year, try to see the beauty deep within yourself. Whenever someone hurts your feelings or breaks your heart, try not to assume you were the one to blame. Try not to assume they walked away because you were lacking something. Some people simply do not fit together. Some relationships are built to be temporary. Even if someone else was unable to see your strengths, that does not mean you should see yourself through their eyes. Do not let their ignorance ruin your confidence.
In the New Year, try to speak to yourself respectfully. Try not to tear yourself apart whenever the smallest thing goes wrong. Try not to call yourself stupid and ugly and awkward. Try to develop a kinder, healthier relationship with yourself. Try to stop caring so much about what everyone around you think and work on the way you view yourself. Try to love who you are at your core.
In the New Year, try to give yourself permission to really feel your feelings. Try not to assume you are overreacting or blowing things out of proportion when you are upset. Try to understand your emotions are valid. You are allowed to be sad, happy, annoyed, bitter, or any combination of feelings. You have a right to your thoughts and opinions. You do not have to silence yourself for anyone.
In the New Year, try to foster a positive attitude. Try to treat yourself with kindness, even when you are at your lowest. Try to count your strengths instead of focusing on your weaknesses. Try to remember you are a wonderful, beautiful person even in the moments when you feel like the opposite. Try to go easy on yourself.
As 2020 comes to a close and 2021 begins, do not be so hard on yourself for the things you failed to accomplish, for the regrets you accumulated, for the lessons you were forced to learn. Try to focus on the positive in yourself, the same way you focus on the positive in your family and friends. You give them so much love and it is time to give yourself some love, too.
Nov 26, 2020
Reasons Girls Keep Chasing After Wrong People
You do not fall in love with people. You fall in love with attention.
It does not really matter if you like the person you have been seeing. It matters if they like you, if they give you attention, if they make you feel attractive. You care more about their feelings than your own feelings because all you want is to feel wanted. All you want is to be romanced the way women are in the movies. It does not matter who you are dating. It matters whether they make you feel beautiful, intelligent and validated.
Your standards are dangerously low.
If someone actually answers your texts and calls you pretty and treats you with respect, you feel like you have found a catch. It does not matter if there is chemistry. It does not matter if you have anything in common. The second someone treats you somewhat decently, you feel like you have won the lottery. You are so used to being treated like dirt that you think your standards have risen, but they have not risen nearly enough.
You enjoy the chase more than the actual relationship.
You like flirting. You like playing the field. You like the idea of this person more than you like the actual person. Being with them is never as beautiful as you imagined because you had an unrealistic version of them in your head. You liked the person you thought they were instead of who they really are because you were not paying close enough attention.
You are going after what you are supposed to want instead of what you really want.
You date anyone who looks good on paper. If they are somewhat attractive and work hard and say all the right things, then you give them a chance. After all, you do not want to stay single. You do not really mind being alone but you mind the way it makes you look. You mind the way others judge you over your relationship status. That is why you are more concerned with the way your relationship looks on social media than whether you are truly fulfilled.
You have absolutely no idea what you want.
You assume you know what you want because you are supposed to know what you want. You are supposed to have this figured out by now. You are supposed to be in touch with your emotions, in tune with your inner self. But you have not really stopped to consider the question. You have not really invested energy into figuring out what type of person would make you happy.
You feel pressured to find someone soon.
You are getting older. Relationships are getting more serious. So many people you know have already settled down with the love of their life and you do not want to feel like you are being left out. That is why you usually date whoever happens to come along. You do not put much thought into it. You simply go with the flow. If there is a chance to start a relationship, you take it, because why not? You might as well enter a serious relationship, too. You might as well give love a shot.
I suggest if you happen to be single or separated it is better to take time think about why your past relationship did not work or why is it too hard for you to find someone to settle with. Figure out who you real are? Who you real want? Avoid repeating same mistakes over and over it will not be good, psychologically it might affect you. However, it is okay to be picky. It is okay to really think about what would make you happy and be more selective in the dating process.
Nov 19, 2020
Reminder For When You Feel Alone
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When you are feeling broken-hearted, I want you to know that you are not alone. Some of the most loving people in the world have been broken many times before they found a love that felt like home. They put their heart on the line, they bared the most precious parts of their soul, and still they were walked away from.
-What set them apart was their belief that each heart-break would lead them to something better.
When you are feeling like a failure, I want you to know that you are not alone. Some of the most brilliant thinkers and doers in the world failed many times before they succeeded. They poured all of their energy into their ideas, they worked as hard as they could, and still they were rejected.
-What set them apart was their determination to try again and again.
When you are feeling soul-crushing sadness, I want you to know that you are not alone. Some of the happiest people in the world have had joy stripped from their bones many times before they found renewed pleasure in simply existing. They savored every moment, they focused on the positives, and still happiness was seized from their control.
-What set them apart was their faith that the sun always returns after darkness has passed.
When you are feeling like you can’t go on, I want you to know that you are not alone. Some of the most driven people in the world have felt like they could not bear another step forward many times before realizing that their path needed to be walked. They trusted that the universe did not want them to hurt, they believed that the people they cared about the most would be in their lives forever, and still they experienced gut-wrenching loss.
-What set them apart was their hope for a better tomorrow.
When you are feeling lost, I want you to know that you are not alone. Some of the most confident people in the world have been overtaken by confusion, time and again, before figuring out where they were headed. They studied every map, they followed words of wisdom, and still they were left questioning their purpose.
-What set them apart was their trust that everything would work out for the best.
I want you to know that you are not alone because;
Each heart-break will lead you to something better, as it has done for many others before.
You will have the determination to try again, just like many others before.
The sun will return after the darkness has passed, as it has for many others before.
You will find the hope for a better tomorrow, just like many others before.
Everything will work out for the best, as it has done for many others before.
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