While changing your way of life to a better version you might face uncomfortable signs where you may want to give up and think you are wrong. Honestly you not, one thing you should keep in mind is that you are growing and changing into better version of your life. Here are some of the signs you are changing for the better.
You have likely felt this on a smaller scale once in a while, like when you started working at a new office or a new position. Or when you move to something totally new. But this feeling where absolutely nothing feels familiar or comforting anymore usually means that you have outgrown your life as you know it. It is extremely uncomfortable, but it is beneficial in the way it allows you to start fresh and grow to better version of yourself.
It is extremely hard to stay around the same people who knew the old you once you begin changing into someone that you do not necessarily recognize at first. The isolation feels lonely at times, but it is your own version of a cocoon. The real ones will make it through this period with you, and the ones who fade into the distance will only leave room for the people meant to be around you in this new phase of your life.
You feel a general guilt about being ungrateful for scoffing in the face of the things you once worked so hard for. You also feel uneasiness at the prospect of having to work that hard (maybe even harder) yet again in order to achieve the next big thing. It is always okay to take a rest, but if you are feeling stuck, you have probably been chilling for too long. The fact that we get to one achievement only to set a new goal can feel intimidating, but really it is so much better than the alternative. You are not stuck, you only feel like it because it is time to keep moving.
You feel hopeless about your approach on certain things.
Hopelessness can be an underrated tool. Sometimes, it is in the face of giving up altogether that we manage to dig deep and find the solution that has been staring us in the face all along. If you feel hopeless about your approach in solving certain areas of your life, it is most likely because you are ready to explore a different solution. Or better yet, you are ready to put your worries and stress to bed, allowing you to clear the path that was always yours to follow. This can feel uncomfortable when you have been trying to force an outcome for a long time, but it is not defeat you are experiencing, it is the redirection you have needed.
I know it is uncomfortable now, but soon you will be able to look back and it will all make sense. Good things are coming for you soon. For now, just enjoy the ride and learn as much as you can on the way.
